She has abandoned his request to remain home, in spite of 24/7 Professional Caregivers, and myself. Dad wishes to remain in his Beach House until the end of his days. It would kill him emotionally, physically etc, and to move him now into a nursing home. Age 91, only recently did we shift to a complete around the clock, profession Caregiver schedule. I live with him and am health guardian 50-50 along with my Sister who lives a long way away and has not been proactively helpful. In fact, my 2 siblings are scheming and bullying the Conservator in every possible way. The situation is quite complicated.
I have been documenting everything for the almost 2 years I have been caring for dad: Every phone call, medication log, intake and output log (just recently), resistance for him from my siblings, one lives very near and could help if he were so inclined and not so mentally ill.He is a high functioning Asperger's Syndrome whom Mother made her POA a year ago at his urging when I think she was diagnosed with dementia, and Trustee in 2006.
With the holidays ensuing the 2 siblings become more demanding and hateful, especially towards me. Everyone agrees, even my siblings, that I have done an excellent job with dad's healthcare.
It is a difficult thing to remain in a house for 9 months for fear that one's father will be kidnapped. That was my siblings plan prior to the Guardianship Hearing.
Now the Conservator says she will not pay for any food I eat, only for dad's, I am ok with her decision, but I know who gave her this idea. I exist on my disability check and EBT has gone away since I told them I live with dad and he covers utilities, etc, not me.
This is a condensed version. The struggles have been phenomenal. I am open to suggestions. Thanks in advance,