Talks to me like a child because I do what mother asks, not his way. My brother just moved down here and talked to my mother with his girlfriend - a CNA. Now he thinks he knows what has to be done. I've been taking care of her for a few years now and he hasn't even seen in her about 5. He feels she takes too many pills and self-medicates. I agree in part but she insisted I give her all the pills when I gave her one day's worth as an experiment. I ended up giving her all of them along with the pill box given to her yesterday and she promises she won't run out this time. My brother starts treating me like an enabler and talking down to me. I am the oldest in the family and have been with her the longest. Should I just let him go over to my mother's house, take her pills away and distribute them to her daily? I am out of answers because I know my mother will hurt herself if she takes all the pills she has before their time. She is a retired RN and started talking weird about 4 years ago (Not making sense, asking same question etc). He didn't see it. Nobody saw it except me and her nearly 88 yr old boyfriend. She will be 82 in October.