I am an only child (daughter). I'm 61 caring for my dad who is 84. I have always been a daddy's girl. We get along wonderfully most of the time. I'm getting stretched to the max keeping him in his own home as he desperately wants. I have part time help. He is diabetic with severe neuropathy and stenosis in his back (making very weak legs). I know there will come a point when I have to move him to L/A or memory care. How can I get help when it comes to that time?