My father was put in a NH for rehab now it would be in his best interest to remain long term he is only 77 years old, over past month he’s had a sudden decline in his health due to multiple strokes and severe heart failure and dementia. His body is extremely weak, and is mostly required to use a wheelchair for safety instead of his walker, his mind comes and goes, and relies on the nurses to dress, bath him. Sits sits around with his head slumped over all of the time and does not have any desire to walk around and socialize. He wants to move with me but I’m not physically able to care for him with all of his needs. I feel so guilty about this, he does not want to stay at the nursing facility and I worry about what he’s going through and struggle with the decisions I have to make for his wellbeing because he does not think he’s that sick. What do I do to accept the right choices without feeling so very guilty.