My grandma has been doing this for years. Mom just started needing to wear diapers and she's doing the same in the bathroom right this second. Soiled or new, they both will sit there and meticulous rip the absorbent pad off the diaper. WHY!!!!!!!! On every diaper I've tried, the absorbent pad is just glued on a disposable underpant. Are there any diapers where the pad is more integral to the underpant so that it can't be torn off?