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Trying to find a place that is decent is hard where I live. So I am "stuck" in this house when I get off work or before I go. I try to avoid any small talk as much as I can. But with her severe mood swings & narcissism it's like your on a constant roller coaster that does not stop. She is so vindictive & verbally & emotionally abusive. I'm so desperate to move that I'm contemplating on moving into a 2 bedroom apartment that I haven't looked at yet. I'm going to be taking my grandsons & adopting them. My daughter had them taken away 3 yrs ago. CPS wouldn't let me take them unless I moved back to where they are. When I finally move.. I'm not allowing my mother to see my grandsons. Last time she kept saying "how come their so dark "? Wow.. It's summer out...??? And yes we are native American..but she don't acknowledge it. Any input out there ?

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I'm gonna find somebody that knows about resources. I just hate asking for a hand out. But in this case I don't have much money to work with. I barely have money & I have my last pca check coming & she said she wants half of it. Lol...shes got sum nerve..
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I forgot to mention that I'm working at my local hospital & er as a cna. I pay alot for my insurance & etc.
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I'm gonna find somebody that knows about resources. I just hate asking for a hand out. But in this case I don't have much money to work with. I barely have money & I have my last pca check coming & she said she wants half of it. Lol...shes got sum nerve..
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Get out and away from your mother - she is horrible and will be awful to her grandkids. Good advice from fazzledmama about tribal assistance. There might also be some assistance through local social services - especially for the adoption. Good luck to you!
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Does your tribe offer any type of housing or emergency hardship assistance that could help pay for a deposit or rent on an apartment? I am Native also :) I know some tribes do offer this type of assistance, but the programs and services vary by tribe and region.
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