All other behaviors are much better. Showering is a nightmare! She has become incontinent and hx of uti. always went to beauty shop for hair but will no longer go to hair appts and refuses to wash hair at home. I am not sure of what is in her mind when it comes to h2o and a bar of soap??? she admits on her own she smells and still fights a shower. Screams, bites, scratches gave me a titty twister from hell once , have pics of the wounds. lol. Refuses to wear briefs ( got her to lay on it only) does not want to change gown that's a fight as well and tells me she does not care if I change sheets etc... any words of wisdom on the whole showering experience? I have tried all kinds of strategic tactics and creative wording and find that is good for one time use only. there has to be a good way to keep her clean without the drama. HELP!