My mom is 69 and has been living with me, my husband and our family the past five years because she could no longer afford her house. She still works full time. My husband has an opportunity to relocate his position and move us to Rehoboth Beach in DE, where the taxes are far below what we are paying now. My mom would have to retire if we moved since we’re moving out of state, but she told me she still has to pay for her car and still has work to do so. I am feeling so guilty about all of this. My brother and SIL told me beforehand that we do what we need to do and she’ll have to decide and find a new place if she doesn’t come with us. Well, it’s been so hard for her to find a new place that’s decent and affordable. Please help me because I am torn. I feel awful for even thinking of leaving her behind, and if I have to actually do it, I can’t imagine the feelings I’ll have! I don’t know what is right or wrong. My brother will still be here for her but it’s not the same as your daughter. She really has no one else besides her sister here and her work buddies.