So most people on the site know of my situation with the crazy ex family. I really want honest opinions rather than the sympathy because I am way beyond that and no one in this situation deserves symathy at all.
Anyway, 3 weeks ago, my ex contacted my mom, an RN (on vacation now) because his mom had an open cellulitis wound that was turning green. Her suggestion was get a culture, get proper antibiotics and told him proper wound care. She refused to get a culture. Fast forward, now she is in hospital for septsis, pnemonia, an infectious disease of leg and a heart attack from the infection. They are waiting for the results of a bone scan to see if the leg should be amputated. Again, no sympathy because she is "competent" and family thinks she can make her own decisions even though she had gained 78 lbs since I stopped caring for her and she makes bad decisions. They refuse a psych evaluation due to denial issues.
My son refuses to see her even though shes begging for it because he thinks family are complete whack jobs and they all bring about the probems and I agree with him.
While I feel bad she is going through this, I feel karma is a b!tch and she deserves whats coming. Aps is not an option since dil used to work for them and its one big conflict of interest, which is sad.
Honestly, I dont want someone to die over neglect but what alternatives are there? I feel like I have exhausted all possibilities in the past so is my conscience clear?