I give up!! I've gotten to the point where I need to get them more than I can do. They're having a negative effect on my marriage. Taking too much out of us both.I can't afford to pay for companion care for both. They're tired of living with us also but can't afford to be on their own.I feel helpless and hopeless. No family members will help, we're not involed in church. Its not fair to my husband who has been great for the past 10 years.