My mom (95) and her sister (my aunt; 93) have always been very close, but both have dementia now and live far from each other. My aunt had a stroke over the weekend and is now on hospice; she isn't speaking but evidently has been holding on to a picture of my mom. Should I tell my mom about my aunt's stroke and poor health? Or should I wait until my aunt passes to break the bad news? My mom is still fairly lucid. It's heartbreaking-- they've been best friends their whole lives.