As the spouse, I must communicate with everyone involved in my husband's care. The communication is rarely positive since he has dementia as well as chronic health issues. His condition is not improving, some days better than others, but usually there is a problem that demands my attention every day. Family members are concerned and I know they are asking out of concern, but it is so stressful to be asked almost daily "How is he?" or worse when they ask for details. How do I handle this delicately, without hurting anyone's feelings?