Long Story Short … In last November 2015, Mom went to the facility that was recommended from by Memorial hospital due to numerous falls. The last fall was so bad that she had a broken leg and arm. It has been about 6 months later. She's depressed and keeps asking my dad who is 89 years old to bring her home. Note: I have cerebral palsy and Dad is old. Dad barely can't help himself due to his back and balance. Mom and Dad have moderate dementia. Now,every time we call and visit Mom at the facility/nursing home, she always be combative with my Dad and keeps giving him the guilt trip such as "If you really love me, you would have bought me home by now!" Also, she said ”if you can't have me, i want to die!" Dad keeps telling her "how can I take care of you?" Mom can't really help herself even though she thinks she's capable. My question is how can my dad explain to Mom without getting flustered. Mom gets really combative and Dad gets so upset by her. Mom always been combative when she was younger, but it has gotten worse now. We cannot bring her home because we can't see her falling everywhere at home. We especially DAD cannot help her. Please advise. Thank you for support!!