My mother’s evening/ weekend caregiver who was virtually homeless is staying with her. She has no license, so no car. She is good to my mom, but does very sneaky things and I now am losing trust. She is pretty much homeless, so she has just continued on staying with mom. I provide all food and that means her dog’s (chihuahua) food, as well as her necessities etc. No food stamps or anything and moms $735 per month does go towards that.
My mom has to have pullups, testing strips, shakes along with much other. I believe that things are going on but I’ve been told that she puts out to people acting like she is hungry etc. My gosh they go through more than my household of 4 and I’m baffled. I paid her more in the beginning and it started because I was to go on a trip with a dying aunt so I paid her out of pocket. That was in April and she is still there. During this time her sister and 2 other little dogs came and wasn’t even asked about that. I know both personally but this is so out of hand. Caught her leaving in the middle of the night for 3 1/2 hours the other night and yet she is good to mom. Pampers her. She is hemiplegic so can’t walk. I’m an only child with no other help except for the state’s caregiver which is awful too. I’m wondering how much today I should be paying given this info. Can anyone help me with this cuz I’m sick of hearing how she says I do nothing for her which is so crazy.