My mother has been in a memory care facility for about 7 weeks. Two weeks in I asked the nurse/director specific questions about how my mother was doing, updates, etc. He said "I'll spend some quality time with her next week and get back to you." He never did. He also mentioned that he and I should meet about her care, etc. I said "great, Mondays are best." Never heard back. I live 75 miles away but can make myself accessible. What do others receive from memory care -- weekly reports, monthly reports, phone calls, emails?? Also important is that my mother thinks I am a drug dealer and thief -- the last time I saw her she was very threatening and loud...I steer clear of her one-on-one, but still want to know what's going on with her.