My husband does not help me with his elderly father at all. I carry him to all bid doctor appointments, do all his shopping, pay all his bills, etc. If something happens to him it's me that has to talk to the doctor s. I have to plan all family holidays around his dad and what his wants. What about our family and what we want? I also carried for my husband's mother til she passed away with no help from him or his sister. I never get a Thank you, I appreciate you nothing. What should I do? I have so much resentment built up.