My mother passed away in November. So my sister has nobody to hide behind anymore. My dad knows how she is. She is bold enough to tell family members she’s waiting for my dad to croak cause she wants his brand new van. Sick sick sick. I tried to reconcile with her but she’s on drugs. She tried saying I’m on drugs. Nice try. Not. Any input would be appreciated.
hayley
My advice was going to be to let you know how distance and going 'no contact' can work, and give you peace.
After one year of no contact with a highly toxic person, a family member came to say to me: "She said this about you".
I was able to say that, "After a year of not ever talking to her, how would she know?". The gossip no longer held any power.