We are both legally caring for our elderly parents in AL, though I'm farther away & quite ill. AL location was agreed to & chosen closest to sibling due to my disabilities & health decline from many years I alone have cared for our parents. Sibling has refused numerous times to answer questions I ask re: parents & finances, medical, etc. Also, I've witnessed many times parents in distress, need help & sibling refused to act, reply, or says not needed, doesn't observe their medical needs that I've seen for myself are needed, or doesn't act when immediate care is needed though I've said it is, and was right. Also, sibling doesn't do any follow ups drs say is needed.
Due to a recent dispute, sibling has cut off all contact, leaving me in the dark completely. Being disabled and sick, I'm unable to see for myself as often as I'd like or to do what's needed ~ or even to contact sibling to do what's needed. This recent rift is also causing me great stress and illness.
I don't know where to turn, but I need help. I can't get myself well worrying all the time, and this continued strain on me. And I'm very worried about my parents, their care, condition, especially in light of the conditions I've found them in before and things my sibling has said regarding their care.
Does anyone have any idea/s of what I can do? Thank you in advance for any advice.
I'm not sure what topic to put this under ~ Choosing elder law; elder abuse.