She is the most negative person I have ever known. It's like a dark cloud. Mom likes to make stupid comments, to me, indicating she wish she would go to sleep and never wake up. She has nerve pain which I understand because I also suffer from nerve pain but I don't have pity parties. I ask her why don't you make these stupid comments around your other children if and when they decide to come by. I told her I'm breaking my back trying to keep her well and satisfied and I have to listen to this s??t! I've had it, can't take it anymore.