I am living with in one bedroom apartment with my husband and his mom from past 2 years , they both are hoarders and I am clean person. My husband does electronic hoardings and my mother in law hoards mails, used tissues, toilet papers clothes and anything and everything, I cleaned my apartment many times and throw away many of my husband stuff which is useless but they both dont like it they don't care about living in neat place. I asked her to help her in sorting stuff but she is sweet talker does nothing but it annoys me alot I cannot socailze with people I cannot invite people over my home. I have severe depression anxiety and sometimes I feel burn in my heart, she lives like trash never cleans anything. I bought her closet and bed and hampers so that she can arrange her stuff, and she goes to restroom three times in the night time, staying around 1 hour in restroom clicking selfies, restroom is in our room, and she does invites her boyfriend in our apartment in our absence and when we caught her doing this she starts playing victim saying I will do suicide and all I am not happy at all. It seems like my marriage is coming to an end. I don't know what to do?
Brings the b/f over and then threatens to commit SUICIDE when you ask her about it?
Get out. Save yourself. Some situations are just TOO screwed up to be salvaged. This sounds like one of them.
How have you withstood the nightmare thus far? 2 hoarders and 3 people in a 1 bedroom apartment..........you are one tough cookie!
Best of luck.