He is in a nursing home as he is beyond my ability to provide care. We are private pay right now.
Doctors have given him no more than 30 days. My name is also on everything he owns. Some things are in his and my name only some are in his, his wife and my name and some things are in my mother inlaws name and my name only. If he passes do these things go to probate? I'm thinking No since my name is also on the account as a joint owner and I'm still here.
But I'm wondering if the accounts that are just in his name go to his wife or are they just his and mine. I am also taking care of my mother in law who has had a stroke, has dementia, psychosis, high anxiety and depression. If she gets to a point I can't provide care she will have to go to a nursing home (hoping that isn't for a while)