My only living relative in the US, my son, who cut my hair every 5-6 weeks and allowed me to grocery shop at the date & time that was good for him (I am disabled with a non-curable disease which is Diffuse Osteoarthritis...not the regular Osteoarthritis), suddenly out of the blue took me to court to get a court appointed Guardian to simply get rid of me to not have to do anything for me at all, and in the Request for Court Guardianship papers lied and thought that the Court would not check up on his claims, and the Court did. Well, after being interviewed and positively vetted by 4 Court appointed Therapists/Counselors/Social Workers in person & going through a battery of their tests, 1 on 1 interviews that lasted from 2 / 4 hours each, finally told the Presiding Judge that what my son had accused me of was bupkis...lies, & besides being in a state of severe pain almost constantly, my brain was as sharp as a tack, & they all were expecting a basket case, & found a person with a great sense of humor, a good & positive outlook even with the severe pain, did more on a daily basis that people with half of the disease I have, told the Judge to accelerate my status into the Medicaid LTC status (I already had Medicare and a lower level of Medicaid) so I could get a dedicated aide & nurse to do housekeeping, 5 day a week dinner delivery (I still like to cook from scratch on weekends, and my son always got a 3 to 4 day share of food that was better that in any restaurant that I made...no more of that, since that was just ONE of my hobbies was cooking ) help me with other things that are labor intensive with physical things due to the severity of the disease which could linger for 10-15 years or more. I am 68, had the disease which started as a pain in my lower back 21 years ago that would not go away, & then very slowly progressed to have my severe pain start at my neck & go all the way down to my toes. Had to declare full bankruptcy...lost almost everything except my Condo & car, all savings, & pensions I had to cash in to pay up front for all my medical bills until I finally got my 1st Disability check 9 years after the disease blessed me (It is caused by a DNA sequence fault or change & I had gone to the best specialist in the USA, & always got the same diagnosis...no stopping it, and no cure, and no one is even doing reseach on any kind of cure, & just keep taking and increasing all kinds of pain and other medications as you need. All by myself with only a good sized Medicare Check ( I had a 6 figure income ) now have a FICO score that is just under a steady 800.
Well, since my son lost so fast & so badly in court that he was embarrassed to all holy heck in front of everyone, scolded by the judge, & now does not even talk or face me in person...a very few short & curt emails for over a year, & he sends over his friends for some stuff he has here (I politely turn them away), which is noting he can not easily replace, like board games, very long term storm supplies & camping cooking stoves and fuel tanks (we live in Miami, FL) in a storm we would bunk together (he is in his 40's an not married and lives in the same Condo complex as I (!), but I have my Condo wrapped tight in accordion style Cat 5 shutters and can be inside for months.
I have no siblings...no family (even super extended) alive except for him, ( I have some distant cousions I met once in Europe when I was 10 years old & we never correspond or call )
Now my son has worked and still works (since he graduated from high school and moved to Miami to be with me to further his education / Masters degree & has worked since he was 20 years old for the same but a very successful non-profit which he is a co-founder which helps many nitch catagories of shunned people, & also teaches private and Civil professionals on how to handle & initially approach & care for them until they get proper help. If his work found out what he tried to do to me, fired for cause.
What should I do?