I am 32 years old, male, and my wife and six year old daughter and I live with my grandmother in her home. Granted, she practically raised me when I was young due to my mother being single and having to work to support herself and me. My mother took care of her for seven years living in her home and cared for her 24/7 until she got caregiver burnout and was hospitalized for seven days in a behavioral unit. She finally gave me an ultimatum of either moving out of the house (I have been living with my grandmother and mother in grandmother's home for years) so she could find other living arrangements for my grandmother either a nursing home or other. I could not bring myself to agree to my mom's terms, so she moved to an apartment. Now, I have the evening and weekend care of my grandmother while my mother assists her everyday from 9:00am to 2:30pm. My mother is 66 years old, single and has Emphysema and severe bursitis so I can understand her need to take care of herself since she has no husband. But my major gripe at the moment is that my grandmother hates the meals I prepare for her and will not eat them. She gripes about the food not being healthy, however, I spend quite a bit of time cooking nutritious food for my wife and child as well as her. How do I get her to eat my meals without losing my sanity? Thank you.