After an exhaustive search, we finally decided on a nice Memory Care Facility for Mom. I think that she will be happy once she settles in so I gave the facility the $2000 "non-refundable deposit" required for admission. However, Mom says she won't leave my home and is resisting every step of the way. Consequently, we are having a horrible time getting her to participate in the Facility's Need Assessment. The nurse who conducts the assessment says that at a minimum she must assess Mom's level of functioning and the condition of her skin. Yet, no one seems to know how to get Mom to comply. Is she the only stubborn person with dementia or have others had similar problems? If Mom won't comply will the facility keep the deposit?