I am severely disabled and I cannot care for myself let alone my 87 yr old mil who is in later stages of dementia and my husband who is 69 is showing signs of early to mid stage dementia he won't let me talk to his drs and denies it but he is starting to be very angry with me because I can't take care of he and his mother. Finally he is about to put her in a nursing home and resents me because he is having to. I am praying my disability will go thru soon as I am not able to work and have no friends or family to help me and he is getting more and more aggressive towards me and no matter how calm I try to be he accuses me of being hateful towards him. He is still working and he is only able to pay Bill's when I remind him. He does not want me on his bank account or to have a debit card because of what other women have done to him in the past. Please help I am at a loss as to what to do.