The couple I care for has a vast family support system (12 children [they both had children from previous marriages] and one younger sibling). The man of the house is 90 yo with dementia and is very abusive toward his sweet wife aged 75 yo, who also has dementia. Unfortunately, there is quite a bit of strife between the adult children. I don't know how long this abuse has been going on, but I've noticed an increase lately since I began working there 5 months ago. He is becoming increasingly controlling over minor things. Who do I talk to about this? I am not a mandated reporter. Her daughter is a nurse who is the most involved family member in their care. I could talk to her about it but she is so burdened already and I wonder if her being a family member would make it hard for her to be objective.