My father got paralysis attack last nov but now he is improving but his behaviour is getting worst on daily basis. He is highly egoistic person &he want his work to be done at any cost he just order anytime for anything & it should be done else he will start using abusive language start showing down & make you feel that he is right. He call his friends & order them to do some work n if they don' t do than first he start giving them miss calls as reminder but then also no reply than call them & start crying n even after that also someone say no than he start insulting them by shouting in front of others.His left is just paralyzed which now mostly active other than his hand but than also he just sit at one place and shout & if anyone come and ask him to walk he will abuse them he just eat to make you feel that you are doing something wrong with him.Another side of the story is which we got to know now that he like our maid servant(as my mother passed away last week)who work at our native place & when we checked his bank account he has spend 50k per month on that lady & when we checked all account transaction my father has transferred very high amount to him. Currently since last 4 months my father has not paid her so, can you believe there is no call no text. She is the culprit to damage my father but at last minute we reached our native place & we got full story. Now my father want to go back to her when he cannot walk on his own even cannot go to loo on his own & daily he abuse shout on us to send him back but how should we....please advise to make my father back to normal & make his realise that we are his real family.
Nowadays he beat us in case we go near him he don't want to take bath in case we force then we have to listen alot. He spread so much negativity that me my family is going in depression. I feel like crying every time please advise how to bring my life normal. We cannot leave my father alone at native place also we cannot leave else where.