My mother has recently passed away. My elder sister was enduring POA. We new my mum was being bullied but was in a situation she needed some care from my sister and couldn't get out of it. There is three of us siblings and my younger sister is applying for probate much to my elder sisters annoyance. Now my younger sister has thrown up a hornets nest. My elder sister has creamed off tens of thousands of pounds from the estate over 13 years . she even bullied my mum to have me and my sister removed from the will, but my mum reinstated us both without my sisters knowledge. Me and my younger sister have seen all my mums bank statements which verify that my mothers c/c and bank account have been used to fund her lifestyle. To further make the situation worse my elder sister also has a third part of the estate inheritance. My elder sister was not acting in my mums best interests as she didn't take up financial help from the local authority that she was told she was entitled to.
What can we do ? as we both feel now that our elder sister has obtained money by bullying, used mums debit card for her own purchases, and pressurised / blackmailed my mum into signing cheques.