I have a parent that has said from the beginning, they would not move in with a relative due to them not wanting to be a burden. They took very good care of themselves and are financially capable of going into a facility today. However, I do not think they are ready for the restrictions of a facility. The person of whom I speak was diagnosed with Alzheimer's 8 years ago and the last doctor visit determined that living alone was no longer an option. I have the means to provide the care and my family is all on board with this plan, however the parent is making up reasons to not move in. I have done countless hours of research on the disease and facilities that do and do not care optimally for Alzheimer's sufferers. I have one in my area that is certified and a lovely facility. However, I feel that if they were to go to this facility tomorrow, they would be miserable because they are still high functioning enough to go to the senior center and do swim classes and such. Therefore, when do I overrule their desire to move to a facility now vs. later? Any help would be greatly appreciated.