She is currently living in a Sr Independent living facility. she will not clean her home or food shop. I have a cleaning lady coming in and we do the food shopping. That has stopped her from eating fast food daily. She is active with church and water aerobics. A big concern is her lack of self. She doesn't notice or care if she is dirty. She doesn't remember to brush teeth. She wears the same clothes daily....even underwear. She will put her dirty clothes back in closet. The only time she bathes is when she goes to water aerobics. I live an hour away and cannot check in with her daily.