My father was diagnosed with dementia almost 6 years ago. In December 2018 we had to move him into a memory care facility due to several issues but mainly because he was attacking my mother several times a day. Sometimes it would be verbal attacks and other times he would actually go at her with a knife trying to kill her. When he would come out of these moments he had no recollection of what he had done only that he knew he had done something awful, he would cry for hours after finding out what had happened.
Since moving in to the memory care unit six months ago, he has had several altercations with staff and residents. I've begged to have his meds adjusted but basically I am told there is nothing else they can do. This morning I received a call that he had again assaulted a staff member and another resident over the weekend. I was told that he is being evicted and that I must remove him from the facility within 24 hours.
I have no idea what to do or where to take him. The other facilities I have called all refuse to take him due to his violent history.
Can anyone offer any suggestions, I'm desperate.