My partner of many years as well as myself both lost our spouses. We chose not to marry. His kids absolutely hate me. He realized soon that his kids would not care for him but would place him into care. Their hatred for me was so obvious that several events happened where they mistreated me in front of him. He asked me if I would take on the Trust and totally take over caring for him including his finances. I did not realize the amount of work I was taking on. I have been able to organize everything and have actually made him money by seeing the charges that he incurred using his credit card to buy things that people were talking him into. His kids have not been to see him now for 4 years. They never call and have made it very clear, it is me or them. I realize that what I am doing is best for him. I am an honest person and could not live with myself if I mis-used this trust. When my partner passes, I am to be allowed to live in his home as long as I wish and to sell it on my timeline. I am going to inherit two very small savings accounts. I will be responsible for making sure the kids get their portion of the house. My portion is greater to pay me for my care given him. Can anyone think of something I might have trouble with when the time comes? I have the medical Power, banking and money decisions, I am the trustee should he pass. What obligation do I have to his kids? I have yet to send them a copy of the trust as I don't want to start problems before necessary. I asked my partner about sending them the trust and he agrees that it would only make things harder for me now.