What is the recommended wording for Aid and Attendance with ability to prepare own meals and assistance in bathing?

Talk to ur local VA rep. What u need to show is that care in more than his income. My doctor showed Dementia and I proved she was in an AL, which VA approves. Showed she was paying 5k a month for AL. Her income was 1700 a month which went towards her house upkeep. She had 50k in the bank which anyone could see would be gone in a year. But I got a letter saying 13k a year was too much. What? Who can live off of 13k a year? And she made 20k a year 15k of that SS. Someone didn't look at her form right. I would have appealed it but she was going on Medicaid and u Can't have both.

Members3825, I am moving your post back to the front page of the forums. Hopefully a caregiver who is familiar with Aid & Attendance will be able to help you.