When dad died, mom had her 3 children, spouses, and grands come in and take what they wanted. I tried to tell her not to rush into this. Unfortunately some got all, and some got nothing, and with hard feelings. Now I am POA and I need to do some work on the house and once I start I don't want to move back some of the pieces of furniture etc. There are a lot of dishes, knick knacks and a few pieces of furniture. I need direction so things stay civil, and no one is hurt or has hard feelings and things are done fairly. Suggestions?