My husband is in a gray area and we don't have unlimited funds. We currently have Home Health Care but that is limited. He is totally JPEG tube fed, food, water and meds. He cannot swallow. He is becoming less and less able to do much every day. I need some help...we are both 78. I have been taking care of him for almost 2 years. He had tongue and throat cancer, which is now gone, last year and underwent both chemo and radiation.