My own health is not good, both physically and mentally. Also mild cognitive impairment which means all things take longer and I still make errors and omissions with my own health care. When expected to add on caring for her the stress on me is overwhelming. My health suffers in every aspect.
Dysfuntional family dynamics for 50 yrs !
My only other sib is sister who lives several states away. By the way, she is going to inherit 100% of any assets that may be left after mom dies. I don't want money. I agreed to this plan yrs ago because I have a history of addiction. (20 yrs ago) While money is not my concern, this fact simply adds to my annoyance. I love my mom, but she is manipulative. It feels like she uses guilt to make me sacrifice my life for her.