Short story behind this question is Mom is a raging narcissist, mean, abusive- all that stuff. 91 yr old and can play anyone- I MEAN ANYONE to get what she wants. She has perfected her BS stories and makes a fantastic victim! She is also a hint dropper to her next "projects" to vilify someone. I got a nasty email from her and all it said was " I just took care of you legally".
What you need to know is, she just took my name off everything- She accused the bank of being in "Ca-hoots" with me and filed a complaint! Accused my husband of hitting me/unemployed alcoholic- hired people to find out- I mean paid professionals! Said we are destitute, poisoned her food and hired a lab to have it tested- claimed they said it wasn't Chinese food, it was " Compost". It's all over town to boot. This woman has no boundries and no end to what she can do on a telephone. Prior to the email- she told the girl who comes in to do small things around the house, she had to leave early that day- she had a lawyer coming to the house. That girl gave me the heads up- but that's all she knew. Couple of days go by and I get the email. Its pretty obvious she has done something.
My question is- this lawyer-has probably been played, just like she does everything else and will probably carry out in the best interest of the "victim". I have no idea who the attorney is or what she has done or said. If this lawyer catches on, great...but if not what do I do with whatever mess she has planned- if anything at all.
I know I have to wait until things blow up, but I'm just so sick of this, its never ending. I do feel bad for the lawyer, probably buying into her hatred for my husband and daughter ( oh, you have no idea!!!) and Im the punching bag ( only child) Her latest project has been driving a wedge- our son...her favorite- and he is buying into this. ya, the woman is that good of a manipulator. Bare in mind, I did not share " Gram problems" as they were young and growing up- those were adult issues and now she is working her magic.
I am positive, she will reign havoc down-even from beyond the grave, as she has made it clear in the past those were her intentions, promising I will never have a peaceful day. She has written a letter, sent it to funeral director- to be read out loud at her services to have the final say. Not sure on the content but was told - We can't read this out loud, we just won't. I can only imagine. She has 3 funerals planned, none paid for, for attention.