with a financial advisor and friend? After taking care of my Dad until he passed at 93, my brother and family have no contact with me because of hard feelings. The background to this is too long to go into, but the upshot is that I can't trust them to make financial/medical decision on my behalf. What is the best way to ensure my security should I become incapable of answering for myself? A trust with a CPA as financial trustee and a friend as personal trustee to make medical and personal decisions for me, or a DPOA with CPA and a Medical POA with friend for the same purpose? I've already set up a will. I fear, should I become incapable of answering for myself, that my brother - who has little conscience and who would take my savings and leave me destitute - would be given guardianship of me by the courts if my documentation wasn't set up correctly. Have gotten different advise from both CPA and unassociated attorney who specializes in wills. Also, does anyone have any advise concerning who to ask to be DPOA and medical POA? Any advise or insight will really help. Thanks to all who read this and my wishes for your good health and happiness as you continue with caregiving - something I did for our Dad for several years into his 90s. It is a challenge but one I'm now so grateful I did. Hang in there, everyone!