This last visit, my sister's hospice nurse spent most of the time talking about her marriage problems and she wants to leave her husband. And that a former patient of hers is now a friend and has the good retirement pay as a former military officer (hint, hint). She has said she would be here one day and not shown up, without contacting us, then shown up unexpectedly. Several times I have asked her to let us know she's coming, in case my sister felt up to going somewhere for drive-thru food. She just shows up, saying she knew it would be ok, as we are friends.