I posted here a short while ago fearful about my mother's reaction to go to skilled nursing from her rehab. She weighs about 200 lbs. and cannot stand or walk after her stroke just 2 months ago. She is sometimes confused but now she is always angry ... but only at me. Prior to her stroke she lived in her own house. I went there everyday which is a big reason she could stay there alone at 93 years old. Now she wants me to take her back to her house. Just getting the equipment in there would be a problem. No room for a foley or wheelchair! And I cannot be there 24/7. But she tells me she can stay alone at night...we can work it out she says. Obviously, I did not take her home. Yesterday on the phone she said that she hates me. I am a nervous wreck . And I cannot handle her hating me. I keep searching my mind, wondering how I could take her home to her place. I just do not see how. And I do have a husband who kind of likes having me around.
Oh my. I guess there is no question here just a desperate plea for something?