Dad has been in a secure dementia for about 5 months, very clinical and basic .he arrived from hospital and was aggressive after an operation.
He has settled and they are starting to get the meds right.
He is about middle stage. Not too aware of things.
So I spot at a home that is really beautiful has come up. Gardens a dog ,lots of lovely activities etc , his own private room and sunshine.
So we have a discussion and my brother and mum are concerned that it will set him backwards .
So I have reasons to believe that it may , but I think the good benefits out way what may happen , as he was coming from a hospital where he was terrified.
I suggested a day visit to the new home with dad , noooo that was not liked.
Any way mum stormed out and my brother had a go at me and I lost it.
The truth is he is worried for mum as she can't cope with the change and dad getting violent again maybe ?
I was even thinking of what mum wanted sorry !
We were discussing dad, now I feel dreadful that I diddnt look at mums feelings etc.
I have bipolar and can be very spontaneous without thinking .
Any advice or help