My mother is 73 with stage 7 alzhiemers, he is all the time talking about it will cost mom money when she dies. OI have cared for my mother for almost 5 years now in her home. My bother does not pay me for I am on disability ( yes it is very diffacult on me but she is my mother and I was raised to take care of your own. I used to work in a nursing home and I know that she could not get the one-on-one she gets from me. Here home is paid for and I was thinking for all I do for her that I could get her home , my brother told me it depends on what it will cost her when she dies.