My concern is that I am currently in hospital and of course hear the conversations with her Drs. In my opinion she is a perfect candidate for Hospice. Her daughter trying to reassure her said "they" would just keep her comfortable probably with morphine and a sedative. The mother said she would tell the family if she decided to go that route but she did not want them all hanging over her bed. It sounded to me as though they all believed she would make the decision and then the staff would keep her drugged till she died.
I realize some people believe that is what Hospice does but that could not be further from the truth. Right now I have duct taped my mouth shut but would be interested in the thoughts of others