We just found out my mother in law is terminally ill with metastatic cancer. She's still in the hospital but will be discharged home soon with Hospice in place. Anytime my husband goes to see her, he never wants to take me. On the rare occasion I do go, he makes me feel like I burden him by being there. His other siblings brings their loved ones when they visit. I'm trying not to be selfish during this time but it hurts to know he doesn't want me there. I've tried talking to him and telling him how I feel. He says it's not a burden when I'm there. He says he wants me there but yet he never asks me to go with him or always has an excuse as to why he's going to go see her on his own. What should I do?