The doctor prescribe Remeron and or Megace to help her gain weight and maybe feel better emotionally. She is afraid to take it. She is afraid to go to the doctor, afraid that the doctor will give a memory test, and put them in a nursing home. She is afraid to go to the doctor and take anti depression meds because she thinks that they will be put in a mental ward for taking the meds. She doesn't want to go to her doctor of 30 years, but doensn't want to change due to what they might think. She is lonely, but doesn't want anyone coming into house, but me. I work. I go see her every other day. I would go every day, but she is afraid what her two old nosy neighbors, who really don't care about her think. Very had for her to go to church or beauty parlor, yet, she wants her old life back. Physically healthy, except for losing 30 pounds over 6 months; some partly due to a bleeding ulcer. I want only the best for her, but I don't know what to do. I thought about making an appt with her current doctor to tell all. Ideas please.