Who can I talk to. family not an answer. I don't have time for anything for me no more. its all about the patient.i love the patient with all my heart. and he has been there for me when I needed help. but now it gets thrown in my face that I should lay down and die and give up my life. I can't im only 45 and I have a few things I still would like to do..others should step up and do their share. I'm related my marriage not by blood. im a daughter in law . the other person is an ex wife. I do 80 percent of the hard work. she only has to worry about 20 percent. I wish I had someone I could talk to who understood. someone who knows exactly what I'm talking about. someone to talk to someone to laugh and cry with.