My boyfriend of 3 years is 22 and "caring for" his grandparents. We are both CNAs. She has bi-polar and dementia and he is physically degrading and she is becoming more violent. We are concerned she will hurt him and he just lets her. My boyfriend lives with them and his grandfather is okay with it and his grandma used to be. She calls the cops and kicks him out every other day and it is really effecting him. Again, we are concerned with the safety of the two and want to know how to get help.