My grandma is only 57 years old, she refuses to shower, she’ll make every excuse to not shower and will rage and scream and start crying and say me and my mother treat her bad. Me (age 20) and my mom are feeling so discouraged on what to do. She smells awful other family members do not want her around because of this. It’s been over 4 months since I’ve seen her shower, and I can’t tell you the last time she’s brushed her teeth. She will change clothes, brush her hair and spray perfume on instead of showering. She lies and I think she believes them. She hordes trash and random things in her room, she refuses to do anything to make her home living conditions better. It’s like she comfortable with living without ac/ heat. The house is deteriorating. The plumbing is messed up the water has to be turned off and on manually. When we try to talk to her about everything that’s going on she blows up and tells us to leave, but we can’t just leave her like this. She never goes to the doctor and refuses to go. I’m afraid something is seriously wrong with her health, and mental state. Me and my mother do not know what we can do to get her help. Please someone give me info on what to do.