I just got my step-dads DD214 papers I requested so if and when my mother has to go into an assisted living home, she could get VA benefits, Well to my surprise he has OTH discharge! The form doesent say his conduct and there are a lot of other numbers and letters on the form I dont understand. He got a national defense medal and it doesent say it was taken back, Im just really confused! This was my last hope of financial help. Sometimes you find things out about your loved ones after they are gone that is disappointing, thats why now I try to tell my grown children almost all things about me, the old saying , " whats done in the dark will come out in the light"