We have noticed huge changes in my 75-year-old mom.
She has made big financial mistakes, she blames mistakes on others & she doesn’t think anything’s wrong. She forgets important details to conversations which lead to financial mistakes.
She moved from CA to CO two years ago, moved again down the street last Nov. and now has decided to move back to CA where she has a smaller house and she’ll sell the two houses in CO.
She wants to change her trust, won’t let me talk to her doctor and all of this has escalated in the last two weeks. We’ve had nothing but stressful interactions as we are constantly fixing all that she messes up. Seems like stressful conversations trigger her to become angry. It’s always someone else’s fault but never her. She refuses to see what we see and are trying to communicate.
How do I tell her doctor about all this. I tried to call them but when they returned my call, they couldn’t reach me so they called my mom. That really angered her and she blocked me from talking to them. I don’t know how to help if we can’t get a proper diagnosis. She seems to tell people different stories as long as it makes her look good.